There comes a time when you have to choose between turning the page and closing the book..
There's always a little truth behind every "just kidding", a little emotions behind "i don't care", and a little pain behind every it's okay.
There comes a point when you have to realize you'll never be good for some people. The question is.. Is that your problem or theirs?
People will rate you, hate you, shake you, and try to break you. How strong you stand is what makes you.
People don't change..you just don't really know who they are.
Bitchy and Bad..
Some days you wake up bitchy, stay bitchy and end the day bitchy.. So what?! It's your emotions..your issues.. and you're the only one who can snap out of it..
My attitude will be how you make of it.. You ignore me, I'll ignore you. You give me the attitude, I'll give you the same. You be fake, I'll be "faker", You dislike me, I don't care...
"I don't have anger management issues..i manage my anger just fine. You are the issue.."
"Don't judge me by your standards.My character is well defined on its own."
"Forgive and forget" is useful in some cases. In my case, "Move On' is more appropriate.
"There is not enough middle fingers in the world to say how I feel about you at the moment"
"Life is what it is. Some people need to stop digging for dirt on me when I'm worth the gold that they can never afford."
"Get yourself spayed. You're one dog that shouldn't be breeding."
"Im no longer making an effort with people that clearly don't make the effort with me..seems to be a one way street. Well, I ain't going down that road no more."
Bitch on... More tomorrow..
My attitude will be how you make of it.. You ignore me, I'll ignore you. You give me the attitude, I'll give you the same. You be fake, I'll be "faker", You dislike me, I don't care...
"I don't have anger management issues..i manage my anger just fine. You are the issue.."
"Don't judge me by your standards.My character is well defined on its own."
"Forgive and forget" is useful in some cases. In my case, "Move On' is more appropriate.
"There is not enough middle fingers in the world to say how I feel about you at the moment"
"Life is what it is. Some people need to stop digging for dirt on me when I'm worth the gold that they can never afford."
"Get yourself spayed. You're one dog that shouldn't be breeding."
"Im no longer making an effort with people that clearly don't make the effort with me..seems to be a one way street. Well, I ain't going down that road no more."
Bitch on... More tomorrow..
It all comes down to 29...
1. The more you chase, the more they run. Work on attracting (pulling) people to you instead of chasing after them.
2. Love is not about “finding your other half”. We’ve been misled to think that love is like addition… 1/2 + 1/2 = 1. No, no, no… Love is more like multiplication… so 1/2 * 1/2 = only 1/4. We need to work on ourselves, so we become whole on our own (do not need or rely on someone else to complete us)… when we do that, we begin to attract other individuals that are whole as well… Realize that 1 * 1 = 1
3. If you never ask, the answer is always no.
4. Money is just a means to an end. Sure, it’ll be great to have a lot of money but what we really want isn’t the money in and of itself… what we want is what that money can do for us… what it brings us.
5. There’s no use trying to logically convince a woman. You can’t change a girl’s mind unless you change her mood first. Wait… that works for everyone…
6. Besides “I love you”, the next best thing you can say to someone is “Thank you”. People love to feel appreciated. Why deny them such a wonderful feeling, by withholding two words that don’t cost you anything?
7. Don’t cut off your nose to spite your face… and don’t grab your crotch in public. You’re not Michael Jackson.
8. Facebook isn’t real life. Real life is when you go out and do crazy stuff. Facebook just reminds you of all those crazy stuff you did.
9. If someone slapped you, you get hurt once. If you keep replaying that movie of the person slapping you in your mind over and over again, you get hurt a thousand times. So when is NOW a good time to stop slapping yourself and start letting go?
10. Nobody likes doormats. Nobody respects doormats. Stop agreeing with everything I say. Have an opinion. It’s attractive.
11. Stop looking outwards for external things, people and events to fill up your inner void. You’re looking in the wrong place. The answer you seek is INSIDE.
12. The iphone is great… it can help you do a lot of things. But it can’t give you a hug when you’re feeling down. So stop fiddling with your iphone when you’re out with your friends… unless you’re coding the “hug me when everyone’s gone” application.
13. Spend time with your family. Take your parents out for meals and movies. It doesn’t cost a lot… but it makes them really happy.
14. When you stay EMO, you’re telling the right guy/girl who comes along: “I’m not ready for your love because I’m still upset about what the wrong guy/girl did… run along now… I’ll catch up with you in 20 years tops!”
15. Nobody owes you anything. I repeat… nobody owes you anything!
16. In 5 years, you’ll look back and laugh at the biggest problem you’re having now.
17. If you aren’t happy single, you won’t be happy in a relationship. Another person only magnifies your problems. You’ll project all your unhappiness on the poor guy/girl and he/she is going to leave you and you’ll reaffirm to yourself that you suck. Happiness doesn’t start with someone else… it starts with you.
18. Love yourself first. How can you hate yourself and expect someone else to love you?
19. Stop reading about other people’s success stories and idolizing them and start doing what it is you are supposed to do to create your own success story so others can read about and idolize you.
20. Figure out what you want… otherwise others will just string you along to accomplish what THEY want.
21. Once in a while, do the opposite of what that little voice inside is telling you. See what happens.
22. The media is full of propaganda. Don’t believe everything you come across in the newspapers and on tv.
23. There is no magic pill.
24. Nobody’s zooming in on all your perceived flaws and judging you because of that except yourself. Seriously, most people won’t notice your beer belly until you tell them about it.
25. Don’t always try to be the hero. You can’t help someone who’s not willing to help themselves.
26. Most people equate attention to love… that’s why we’re always doing silly things to get attention.
27. Don’t be so afraid of death that you stop living and going after your dreams
28. We are so used to taking things for granted. Stop, just for a second, to admire the beauty that surrounds you.
29. At the end of the day, no matter what you do, you’ll have critics. Just do what you love and what makes you happy, and be thankful there are people who care enough to talk about you.
I See Brighter Tomorrows..
“You see things and say ‘Why?’ but I dream things and say ‘Why not?’”
- George Bernard Shaw
- George Bernard Shaw
“The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges.”
- Martin Luther King Jr.
- Martin Luther King Jr.
“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.”
- Mark Twain
- Mark Twain
“That some achieve great success, is proof to all that others can achieve it as well.”
- Abraham Lincoln
- Abraham Lincoln
“Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in that gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat.”
- Theodore Roosevelt
- Theodore Roosevelt
“Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.”
- Winston Churchill
- Winston Churchill
“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”
- Thomas Edison
- Thomas Edison
www.richgrad.com
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)